Many of us think of Mother’s Day as being a celebration of our mothers or our mothering of our children. But, there are many kinds of mothers and mothering. There are even some men who mother. Mothers are caring, loving, giving nurturers of all kinds.
A friend without children mentioned her husband was taking her out to dinner for Mother’s Day. I should say without human children as she mothers six furry kids, three dogs and three cats. One of the dogs, a sweet little Sheltie, is trained as a hospice dog. Together he and my friend visit a local hospice weekly to comfort people who are dying and bring a moment of cheer to their families.
I know people who are caregivers of an infirm parent. Roles have been reversed with the child mothering their mother or father.
Some of you have written to me about raising grandchildren. That reminds me of the man behind the counter at a store I frequent. He recently revealed how his daughter died in a car accident and he, a widower, is raising his grandchild as both mother and father.
Many of us retire to find ourselves mothering an ill spouse. We take on most, if not all, of the day to day responsibilities of running the household as well as caring for our partner.
There are even those of us who mother Mother Earth, tenderly caring for gardens, watching seedlings grow to mature plants with the pride of any mother watching a child grow into a fine human being.
Yes, there are mothers of all kinds caring, loving, giving and nurturing. And we honor all of them today.
To mothers everywhere, no matter your gender or who or what your charge,
Happy Mother’s Day!
Heartfelt and Lovely.
A great reminder of the mothering qualities of all
Lovely words as usual. Happy Mother’s day to you, Kathy.
Beautiful and true! Although there is a little part of me that says isn’t it ok to have 1 day to celebrate good ol Mom?
Yes Jena, me too. Just thought it was time to recognize all the others and the fact that our world is changing. K
Yes, mothering takes on many forms. I like what you said about Mother Earth. In turn, Mother Earth mothers me.
I so appreciate your fresh perspectives on mothering. I found it very affirming since I have lost my 2 children. Besides the special honoring of my 92 year old mom, I smiled when I read this at the thought of all the other ways I have been and still am a mom!